Print from personal
collection by Hugh MacLeod available at qapingvoid
You
don't like this question... and you are right!
You
do not want to come across as arrogant by calling yourself a "leader,”
or too pedestrian by saying that you are [only] a manager. You feel
trapped in a bad dichotomy and you are right...
— Being
a leader refers to an attitude and an inspiring style that enables you to rally
people around a vision.
— Being
a manager refers to a functional position where the goal is to execute a
project and direct employers to do so.
Being
a leader and being a manager are not mutually exclusive. The same person can be
both and probably should in many circumstances. Look at it this way: What
is a leader with no management or execution skills? A hot-air blower out of
touch with reality? A sloppy organizer? A dreamer? What is a manager with no
leadership qualities? A short-sighted bureaucrat? A rank-and-file pen pusher?
A great leader must be a manager. A great manager must be leader.
What
if people define you using this dichotomy?
How
do you take these statements?
— "You
are a leader and not a manager."
— "You
are a manager, not a leader."
If
you believe these statements are truly descriptive of you, it's OK.
Sometimes, however, you may not want others to define you through clichés and
even if you are not afraid of this, it may be useful to contextualize such
statements and assess their exact purpose.
"You are a leader and
not a manager"
There
is such a premium attached to the statement of "being a leader" that
the tendency is to value the first part of the sentence and discount the second
part of it. Make sure, however, that it's not a poisonous compliment...
From superiors
You
are being told that you are a guiding force, but that you fail at actually directing
people or following through on projects. Are you a leader, then?
Your
reality may be this: Your superiors may resent your leadership and the
management skills that come with leadership (cross-domain skills, fast problem
solving capabilities and extensive processing capabilities that enable you to
understand situations and learn quickly.... including the ability to see
through this superior). Chances are that their statement is a rhetorical
scheme to demote you and put you into some "strategic" function where
you will have no power, no voice, no decision-making or
follow-through capabilities, and less access to information. In short, these
superiors are removing what fuels your leadership to strengthen their own power
and are taking this opportunity to micro-manage in order to keep control.
From subordinates
It
can be the honest reproach of subordinates that you do not assist them as much
as they expect - and it's true that for fast-thinkers, it can be exasperating
to baby-sit subordinates that don't get it. There is another case,
though... when subordinates tell you that to make sure that you won't look too closely
into what they actually do in order to be perceived as indispensable. That's their
way of maintaining their little kingdom. You may not want to accept this
so-called compliment...
Whether the
statement is coming from superiors or subordinates, chances are that you are
facing a fairly common strategy of B players destined to box you in the place
where they want you to be to protect their power.
"You are a manager, not
a leader."
Maybe
it's true and maybe you do not want to lead... If this is not the case, also
look at where this statement comes from. Again, who is telling you that?
A superior?
Chances
are that your management skills and your potential, threaten your superior.
That's their only way to affirm their authority and maintain their own power,
real or perceived. In other words, they don't want you to grow in your job, let
alone further your career. This person is definitely not going to help you and
will crush your initiatives at all costs.
A subordinate?
It
can be the reproach from a subordinate who expects more from you... So show
your leadership skills and allow your subordinate to grow and thrive.
Conclusion:
Be a linchpin
Great
leaders manage up, not down. Great managers must also be inspiring leaders. The
distinction may work in dull hierarchical environments where people are boring,
unimaginative and all about protecting their turf or where bosses are all about
managing their egos and looking for cogs. BUT not in the energetic companies where
people are happy to work because they know that they are linchpins whatever
they do or are asked to do. It's always good to reread Seth Godin's books,
especially Linchpin, a
great manifesto for individual development and a call for a new workplace which
I discussed a
while back.